Happy Holidays 2001
Dear Friends and Family,
Our theme for this past year has been the building
of
home and hearth. We’ve had a wonderful time as a growing family
and
spent much of what time remained remodeling our house.
In February we added a kitten to the mix, Quixl, and
she
and our dog Pepper are both very good with B. Fortunately, as B
gets older, he is getting better at being gentle with them and has
learned
to throw tennis balls for Pepper, so the pets are getting more perks
from
the situation than just droppings from the high chair and a bigger pack.
We adore being parents. B is a wonder and
delight
that we are able to appreciate almost every day. We are fortunate
enough
that N has been able to stay at home with our son full-time. She
has shepherded him to swimming lessons, music classes, and lots of park
dates,
sing-a-longs, and gatherings with other families met through a
parenting
group. B has any number of people he is happy to see, gets
wiggly-excited
when we are outside the swimming center or his daddy’s work, and has a
best
buddy, J, with whom he loves to spend time (even without us).
B is now officially a toddler, moving independently
and confidently, able to stand up again in the middle of the floor when
he
falls. He understands far more than even we imagine, and can say
a
fair number of words understandably, most notably “kitty,” “dog,” and
“moon.”
His eyes are big and hazel, he has 10 teeth, and he has long blond
curls
we’ve trimmed only a little. He melts our hearts regularly with a
reach
or a tired head on our shoulder.
We’re still managing with one car and no
cell-phones,
though there’ve been situations with increasing frequency which have
caused
us to re-think those positions. Since cell plans are less
expensive
than the Toyota Prius that we want, I suspect we will cave in that
direction
first. Unless, of course, our 10-year-old 119,000-mile Volkswagen
blows
up on us completely and unexpectedly. (We had a scare earlier
this
summer in which we lost first, second, and fifth gears.
Fortunately,
despite dire, expensive projections from a mechanic, we fixed it
ourselves
with a $1.83 part.)
Our physical house has undergone many changes: new
roof,
new windows, new insulation, new paint inside, new bathroom, newly
refinished
floors, and new garden. The roof and the floors we had done, but
the
rest has been our handiwork. We anticipate a new kitchen, new
paint
outside, and a new gate in the next year, but we shall see.
Although
it is hard to live in a fixer-upper without fixing it, it does take
time
we’d rather spend playing.
We hope this reaches you in health and happiness
this
holiday season. We wish peace, justice, and love to you, yours,
and
all the world.